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Thursday
Dec232010

Why you don't have to make everything perfect this Christmas...

Christmas cup photo by Shermee (flickr creative commons)I curl up on the couch, coffee in one hand and a pen in the other. I feel weary all the way to my bones.

I think of all the ways I fall short...

the corners of the house uncleaned.

the corners of my heart that are the same.

I whisper prayers about feeling too small, about things seeming impossible, of never being able to grasp that word that haunts the Daughters of Eve--perfect.

On the horizon of my heart a half-remembered Scripture slowly appears. I search for it. When I find it, I look in wonder...

The Lord will perfect that which concerns me. Psalm 138:8 NKJV

Twin truths slip from that sentence. First, God alone knows what perfect really means. And let me assure you, it's not the standards we set. Second, only He can make it happen in our lives--and He will.

God's "perfect" may not match what we have in our minds. It may not come when we planned. It may not work out the way we always imagined it would.

But God will perfect that which concerns me, that which concerns you.

Is there any better proof than a baby in a manger born on Christmas morning?

Jesus was unexpected, not-as-planned, didn't-see-that-coming, more-than-we-imagined. In one word: Perfect.

And through Him, we can trust that somehow, inexplicably, God will make everything else in our lives right too.

We are imperfect but His love never, ever is.

That, my friends, is worth celebrating.

I get up from the couch. I set down my pen and coffee.

I find myself humming, "Joy to the world..."

written with love for you by holley

Where in this great big world are you spending Christmas? I'll be in Van Buren, Arkansas at the home of my grandparents. I'd love to know where you'll be too!

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Reader Comments (86)

Holley, this is just what I needed to hear today. Most days I'm not even striving for perfect. I'm just striving for survival, and hopefully that my kids won't need therapy one day because of my inadequacies. ;-) I joke, but I'm not really joking. Thank you for the reminder that He is sufficient. Merry Christmas, dear! Will I see you at Blissdom?
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterMusings of a Housewife
This was so awesome to read! Thank you for sharing Holley! I pray you have an awesome Christmas! God loves you!!!
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKaren Campbell
You are a beautiful creation of Christ Holley! So many days I run to your site first thing in the morning. I struggle physically and have many issues. Your writings and love for people, help me to deal with the severe pain and your heart inspires me! Thank you for BEAUTIFUL YOU! Merry Christmas Holley! Praise to Our Savior! Our TRUE Meaning of the Season!
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterKaren
Whew, so glad I'm not the only one who struggles with this! :) Thank you, lovely ladies. Merry Christmas!

And, yes, see you at Blissdom, Jo-Lynne!
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterHolley Gerth
Sure needed this am . Thank you . God is so good to help us through other !!!!! God bless allll of u
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterTracy
I started reading your post not long ago and each new day i find myself looking to read from you. You re gifted with words and your words heals. I thank God for your life and i pray you will continue in the good work. Have a blessed Christmas, looking forward to always read from you.
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterLydia
Thank you for your honesty and openness to let His light shine thru to all of us in the same boat.God bless you and yours
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterLynda Doty
We will be celebrating Christmas first by attendingChristmas Eve candlelight services at our church. Both my husband and I will be singing in the choir at the 5:30 and 7:30 services. I will be serving Communion with other elders at the 7:30 sevice. On Christmas Day we will have both daughters and their families here for dinner and the day. I wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and a blessed and happy New Year!
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJanet McNabb
Thank you Holley :) ! I'm thankful for your life and the way you let God use you with your writings and by being trasparent with all your readers, you encourage us. Merry Christmas! That you receive from God all that your heart wish for this Christmas!
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterJessica Olivares
Thank you for your beautiful thoughts of encourgement.I am here in beautiful Victoria,BC,Canada where I live with my family.Have a blessed "Merry Christmas" and a "Happy 2011 New Year"
December 23, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterGlenys

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